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We Don’t Agree on How Often to Have Sex – Podcast: Dr. John Deloney
There are similar discussions that couples struggle with; finances, sex, in-laws, parenting etc. An often not discussed conversation, especially in Christian marriages is anything around sex. I am going to start posting some thoughts on this topic. Please remember...
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Jonathan Haidt: Smartphones vs. Smart Kids
Fascinating video from Jonathan Haidt. There is tons of research in the talk. This research is also from his new book (see image below)Book: The Anxious Generation: How the Great Rewiring of Childhood Is Causing an Epidemic of Mental IllnessAuthor: Jonathan...
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MARRIAGE INSIGHTS #9: Book Suggestion – Morgan Johnson
Marriage Insights #9: Book suggestion - Rebuilding Trust. As I research for a new talk on marriage called Marriage: Navigating Everything, I will bring you all along for the journey. I will post some of the things I am learning and some of the best resources I can...
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MARRIAGE INSIGHTS #7: Book Suggestion: The Great Sex Rescue
Marriage Insights #7 - The Great Sex Rescue book suggestion As I do research for a new talk on marriage called Marriage: Navigating Everything, I am going to bring you all along for the journey, I am going to post some of the things I am learning and some of the best...
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MARRIAGE INSIGHTS #6: card decks for improved communication
Marriage Insights #6 - card decks for improved communication As I do research for a new talk on marriage called Marriage: Navigating Everything, I am going to bring you all along for the journey, I am going to post some of the things I am learning and some of the best...
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MARRIAGE INSIGHTS #4: Book Suggestion – John Gottman
Marriage Insights #4. As I start my research for a new talk, Marriage: Navigating Everything, I will be posting all of the great books, links, quotes, and other resources as I find them. Author: John Gottman & Nan Silver Title: What Makes Love Last?...
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MARRIAGE INSIGHTS #3: Great Quote – John Gottman
As I start my research for a new talk, Marriage: Navigating Everything, I will be posting all of the great books, links, quotes, and other resources as I find them. This is one of those quotes you need to sit with for a few minutes. I would love to hear your thoughts....
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Mental Health: Control the Controllables: Counselling
When you are struggling with your mental health you need to control the controllables. One thing that is in your control when you are struggling with mental health is going to see a counsellor.
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Emotion Coaching: The Heart of Parenting – Online Course: Gottman
This is an online course that I suggest all parents go through. Click here for a direct link to the Gottman Website From the Gottman website here is information on the course below. DescriptionEmotion Coaching: The Heart of Parenting presents a 5-step method that...
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Failure to Launch: research on a growing population of young adults.
For the past 15 years, I have had more and more parents after my talks frustrated and feeling hopeless with their young adult who seems to be failing to launch into a more independent life. They often use the terminology of failure to launch. This conversation has so...