Everything My Church Taught Me About Sex and Marriage is Wrong
Some really good points here.
Most talks and sermons on physical intimacy and marriage are compartmentalized. It is about sex… and then marriage, or it is about marriageā¦ and then sex. Sex becomes an āadd-onā to marriage much like a shed out back is an āadd-onā to a house. It doesnāt have anything to do with the actual relationship, nothing to do with the structural integrity of the house itself. Itās just a bonus.
Because of this, my understanding of sex became naturally one-sided. What I heard was, āIām going to love having sex. It will make me feel great.
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