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“Sin and the child of God are incompatible. They may occasionally meet; they cannot live together in harmony.” John Stott

Books 

There are so many books on this topic. These are the ones I suggest. I would read through each of these over the next few years. 

1. Cutting it off (J.S. Park) – Click here for Amazon.ca link
2. Sexual Detox: A Guide for Guys Who Are Sick of Porn (Tim Challies) – Click herefor Amazon.ca link
3. How Pornography Hijacks the Male Brain (William M. Struthers) – Click Here for Amazon.ca link
   
4. Pure Eyes: A Man’s Guide to Sexual Integrity (Craig Gross & Steven Luff) – Click Here for Amazon.ca link
5. Clean: A Proven Guide for Men Committed to Sexual Integrity (Douglas Weiss) – Click Here for Amazon.ca link
6. Your Brain On Porn: Internet Pornography and the Emergin Science of Addiction (Gary Wilson & Anthony Jack) – Click Here for Amazon.ca link
7. Think before you look: 40 Powerful Reasons to Avoid Pornography (Daniel Henderson) –Click Here for Amazon.ca link.
8. Treating Pornography Addiction: The Essential Tools for Recovery (Kevin B Skinner) –Click Here for Amazon.ca link

YouTube Feed 

I have created a playlist of over 60 videos on pornography. I would watch a few each week as you work through recovery.

Click here for the.porn.project playlist on youtube

Below are the categories I speak about in my talk. Each section follows the headings of my presentation. So many of the resources fall into multiple categories. I picked the one I thought best fits the resource.  

Beliefs

Challenge your Beliefs (this is a broad catrgory of resources. Many of these resources include information on all of the headings below. To me these will help challenge your beliefs about pornography)

1. Movie – The Heart of the Matter http://heartofthematter.vhx.tv/
2. I am Second – Nate Larkin –  http://www.iamsecond.com/seconds/nate-larkin/
3. I am Second – Ryan Ries – http://www.iamsecond.com/seconds/ryan-ries/
4. Growing up in a pornified Culture – Gail Dines – (language) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_YpHNImNsx8
5. Russell Brand – https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5kvzamjQW9M
6. Jesus Stories: Liz Vogt – https://vimeo.com/89152163
7. Getting Unstuck from Sexual Sin, Part 1 (James McDonald) – https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Mg4nq82KiGk
8. Getting Unstuck from Sexual Sin, Part 2 (James McDonald) – https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oqV8DTQ19nU
9. Pornolescence (Tim Challies) –Click Her

Stats

1. CovenantEyes.com – stats
2. Covenanteyes 250 Facts and Stats about Pornography –Click Here

Theology

Stories:

1. Judges 16
2. Genesis 29
3. 2 Samuel 11

Verses

1. Acts 3:19
2. 2 Corinthians 7:10
3. Romans 2:5
4. Psalms 51:10
5. 2 Timothy 2:22
6. Romans 12:2
7. 1 Corinthians 6:18
8. Colossians 3:5
9. Job 31:1
10. James 1:15

Theology Links

1. The Battle in Your Mind to Abstain from Sexual Sin (Tim Conway) – Click Here
2. The Bondage Breaker (Neil Anderson) –Amazon.ca Link
3. 3 Crucial Questions about Spiritual Warfare (Clinton Arnold) – Amazon.ca Link
4. Principles for Personal Change: Strongholds (Rick Warren) –click here

Spiritual Disciplines

1. Preayer and Meditation
2. Bible Study
3. Fasting
4. Solitutude and Silence
5. Sabbath
6. Simple and Sacrificial Living (money)
7. Service to Others
8. Communion
9. Evangelism
10. Community
11. Musical Worship

Behaviour

Addiction

1. Your Brain on Porn: Learn the 5 ways porn warps your brain and Biblical ways to renew it.  –Covenant Eyes
2. The Porn Circuit: Understand your brain and break porn habits in 90 days. –Covenant Eyes
3. Website –YourBrainOnPorn.com

Accountability

Coming Clean: Overcoming Lust Through Biblical Accountability (Free eBook) – Covenant Eyes

Accountability Software

1. Covenanteyes.com
2. X3Watch.com
3. Accountable2You.com
4. OpenDNS.com
5. X3 Pure Courses – Courses for Men, Women, Parents and Couples –Click Here

Lifestyle

1. The Battle Plan: A Five Step Approach to Removing Pornography From Your Life (Free eBook) –Matt Fradd

Environment

1. 12 Questions to Ask before you Watch Game of Thrones (John Piper) – Click Here

Beyond You

Justice

1. Stop the Demand: The Role of Porn in Sex Trafficking (Free eBook) –Covenant Eyes
2. A Few Thoughts on Women, Men, Porn, & Sexual Assault (Jefferson Bethke) –Click Here
3. This Summer, How Can We Stop Objectifying Women? (Sarah Dubbeldam) –Click Here
4. Porn and Technology (Jeffrey Bethke) –Click Here
5. Growing Up in a Pornified Culture (Gail Dines) –Click Here ** non faith based. 
6. When Your Child is Looking at Porn: A Step-By-Step Guide for Christian Parents –Covenant Eyes

Spouse

“How many times does a man’s wife need to catch him viewing pornography before it strikes a mortal wound to his marriage? How will he measure the damage if one of his children catches him playing with himself in front of a computer screen? How many porno cookies on your work computer will need to accumulate before your job and livelihood are in serious jeopardy? – Think Before You Look – Daniel Henderson

1. Porn and Your Husband: A Recovery Guide for Wives – Covenant Eyes
2. Hope After Porn: 4 women share their heartache…and how their marriages were saved – Covenant Eyes

Parents

1. When Your Child is Looking at Porn: A Step-By-Step Guide for Christian Parents – Covenant Eyes
2. Protecting Your Family Online: A How-To Guide for Parents: Learn the steps you need to take to keep your kids safe online –Covenant Eyes

Dating Relationships

1. Growing up Fast: Why 12-year-old girls are having sex rougher, earlier – Click Her